Krissi

I had one of the most memorable Thanksgiving Days of my life. I decided Thanksgiving morning would be the perfect time to tell a special family what they meant to me. Several years ago I had the pleasure of meeting one of the most incredible fifteen-year-olds, Krissi. I actually met Krissi's mom, Susan, first and immediately became friends. Over the years, I developed a friendship with not only Susan, but the entire family; Big Daddy (Leon), Kati, Danni and of course, Krissi.

We lost Krissi about two and half years ago and she was only 18. Krissi is one of the bravest people I have ever met. Krissi lit up the room and always had a smile on her face. You could not help but fall in love with Krissi. She had a great spirit and was wise beyond her years.

Krissi and Susan actually helped save Todd's and my wedding. It is a very long story but the garden had booked fell through about two months before our wedding. In a panic I called Susan (she knows everyone in town and if you are ever in trouble call Susan) and she said, "this is a perfect day for you to call me. Krissi isn't feeling well and this will be a project we can work on together. I will make a few calls and call you back." Fifteen minutes later the new location was booked for our wedding.

Krissi taught me several things. As Krissi's dad Leon said, it was never I or me with Krissi, it was always we. She thought of everyone else before herself and never wanted anyone to see her in pain.

Thank you to Susan, Leon, Danni, Kati and especially Krissi for making a difference in my life. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family.